I've had two Droids (#1 and X) and neither have ever had any problems. My son also has a Droid 1 and has had no problems. I have a feeling that you were either unlucky or you are doing something out of the ordinary. That being said, you deserve a working phone unless you are doing something "against the rules."
Since Verizon isn't willing to help you out and would prefer to point their fingers at Motorola, here is what I would do (at least for the first set of actions):
Tell Verizon that you will be expecting them to contact Motorola and have Motorola resolve the problem with a new phone. Tell Verizon that you will expect a full report in 24 hours describing who at Motorola they spoke to and what action Motorola is going to take. I would also tell Verizon that you will follow up with both Motorola (based on their contact - the individual they spoke to), and with their regional manager (you will need to get that name from them). If nothing can be resolved, tell you them you would like your contract closed at no cost to you and you are going to go get an iPhone from AT&T.
Good luck.
Since Verizon isn't willing to help you out and would prefer to point their fingers at Motorola, here is what I would do (at least for the first set of actions):
Tell Verizon that you will be expecting them to contact Motorola and have Motorola resolve the problem with a new phone. Tell Verizon that you will expect a full report in 24 hours describing who at Motorola they spoke to and what action Motorola is going to take. I would also tell Verizon that you will follow up with both Motorola (based on their contact - the individual they spoke to), and with their regional manager (you will need to get that name from them). If nothing can be resolved, tell you them you would like your contract closed at no cost to you and you are going to go get an iPhone from AT&T.
Good luck.