Ok dood, here is Microsoft definition of the Push technology for Active Sync.
Q.What is Direct Push?A.Direct Push is a notification feature in Exchange Server 2003 Service Pack 2 that improves the user experience for users who have a Pocket PC or smartphone. This feature is available on Pocket PCs and smartphones that are running Windows Mobile 5.0 and the Messaging and Security Feature Pack (MSFP). By default, Direct Push is installed on Exchange Server 2003 SP2.
Mobile devices that support Direct Push issue an HTTPS request to the Exchange server that asks Exchange Server to report any new or changed e-mail messages, calendar, contact, and task items. If changes occur within the lifespan of the HTTPS request, the Exchange server issues a response to the device that includes which folders have new or changed items. The device then issues a synchronization request to the server. After synchronization is complete, a new HTTPS request is generated to re-start the process. This ensures that the mobile device is always synchronized with the Exchange server.
You can read it here:
Exchange ActiveSync: Frequently Asked Questions
So yes, the mobile device is constantly issuing requests to check to see if there is new mail.
With a BB, the mobile device does not check in with the BES server to see if there is new mail. The BES server pushes it to the mobile device after the BES server notices new mail.
So my anaolgy is pretty right on. Sorry if you don't see it that way.
Bye.