You'd be crazy to not get the Droid Incredible. I love my Droid, but unfortunately, the Droid was pretty much the last phone to be released before all of these "super phones" as Google likes to call them. The Droid simply can't compete with the 1 GHz Snapdragon CPU and 512 MB of RAM, among other things. Get the Incredible.
To each their own. I think one should buy according to their needs and requirements.
I like the option of a physical keyboard, so the Droid is perfect for me.
AMOLED display in HTC is cool..but try viewing it in direct sunight! You may not be pleased.
8MP camera does not necessarily mean better: lens quality is the issue. My old LG Dare was 3.2 MB and the pictures were great as it had a better lens. I still use it for taking photos.
I got my Droid about 3 weeks ago. Am I annoyed there are newer phones? Absolutely not! There will always be something new or "better." I plan on keeping my Droid until my 'New Every 2' is up 18 months from now.
Moreover, I also got my Droid for $49.99 from Staples/VZW as part of my 'New Every 2' renewal (which they also honored a few months early -- probably wanted the sales for the end of Quarter 1). Can't complain!
Yes, go and try out the Incredible..but don't count the Droid out yet.