when using meebo and the beta yahoo messenger does this eat at your text usage or is it considered data?
What is "messaging" on the desktop, is that texting or something else?
Lastly, my wife also has the droid but we do not have a texting plan. Is there a way to send messages to each other without using or getting charged for texts?
1) all of the IM apps I've seen use the data network so it does not go over SMS. This makes sense as all the smart phones require a data plan, so doing IM over SMS is silly.
2) Messaging on the desktop is SMS through the phone, so if you had a texting plan, this is what would take texts from your available pool
3) If you and your wife have Google Voice accounts, you can install the app on the phones and use GV for texting between each other. Because this is done through Google and not Verizon, ti does not depend on a text plan. I actually had planned on doing this for all my texting, except I needed a text plan for work because I coudln't receive pages I need via GV
Hope that helps!
Brian