I think I figured out a solution for RSD lite. I'm using windows 7 and I had to open RSD lite in compatability mode with full administrator privilages. In compatability mode I was able to SBF back to factory in under 10 minutes.
I'm still can't boot to recovery though. I can get to the stock recovery but I see an error: E:Can't open /cache/recovery/command. I tried all the fixes I can find on this forum and google and I even SBF a 3rd time but nothing worked.
Any help or direction would be appreciated.
Scratch that last post. I figured it out. I thought I had the flash process memoried but that was flashing from one custom rom to the other. I forgot to reinstall the droidx bootstrap. I'm off to flash apex again... wish me luck.
Thank you for all your help clueless7!!:hail: