Well here's my experience from my local vzw store today.
He hasn't seen anything, he said *they* leave them in the dark. and feed them ish. I showed him the "pre-order" receipt from the "premium retailer" that was posted here. He said corporate offices (vzw owned) get information/pre-order ability before franchises do (which a premium retailer is) - kinda like the kiosk in the middle of a mall. They don't get anything before a corporate office. So anyway, he said while it's obviously not a legitimate pre-order, they did take his money and "hold" a nexus when they come in for him... but simply just to nab the sale for them. Because they know that person will be back in that store to get his device, after all... they've got his $300!
We talked for awhile, on a number of things.. he believes we won't see pre-orders till the 25th (Razr was released the 11th.. 14 days later is the 25th, those who bought the 11th won't be able to return, unless you can on the 14th day? I don't know personally) but either way he thinks it'll be pre-orders the 25th/release 28th. I also picked up the accessory case/screen protector for the nexus so at least I walked away with Nexus something! (hah)
He said he got no other ICS Training other than a data person come in, hand him a piece of paper and say "this is ICS" - while he acknowledges there is deff online training, he hadn't done it yet.
He claimed he had 15 years with VZW.. he said he's never seen a phone released on a Friday.. hardly ever (yet he said he only started paying attention to actual release days a year ago) - the razr is a marketing exception (11/11/11) - he said Mondays are unusual.. but not out of the picture. He said "Thursdays are usually always our big days".
Maybe tomorrow guys. who knows, hahahaha.