It could also be a bad phone that needs to be replaced. Start with those that ppl who have suggested ideas, start with the simple to the more complex. Ignore those that offer no suggestions. Most ppl are here to help you be successful with your new phone.
First, plug in USB and then on phone, pull down the notification bar from the top, touch where it says USB connection, choose USB mass storage. Also the first time you plug your phone into puter, you will get a pop-up on your PC telling you that windows needs to install driver software. Make sure you install the driver software. If none of that works...
Try a different USB port, if that fails
Try a different computer if you can.
If none of these ideas work, let us know and we can try to walk u thru more possibilities.
You may have a bad phone. You can find out by going to a Verizon store and having them try (easiest) or call them and they will help you trouble shoot.
Hang in there, all is not lost.
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