Another vote for ApeX 1.4.1. I've been running it since release and no problems. I ran GummyJar for a few hours but it had a USB issue (may have been fixed), RubiX Focused 2.0 and it had a bluetooth issue, and Liberty but I didn't like the yellow, and I don't like running themes.
ApeX is just a solid ROM, no Force closes or hang ups, fast, simple, looks stock, and you can choose blur or no blur or a mix. You get all features of the phone that would be on the stock software. (HDMI - Many don't have. Very few have)