Nope. You should probably just hang up on her & do this instead. Forgiveness is much easier to get than permission (for pretty much everything). Just tell her you were trying to enhance the over-all wonderful phone experience with her by updating your phone to UD2.1.lol, is it bad that I wanna rush my girl off the phone so I can load it up? lol
On a sidenote... this ROM is awesome so far. Tomorrow will be the real test...