For anyone wanting to test just the theme, on top of the updated UD-eXtreme 7.0.0.. (he posted some fixes last night) here is the link.
It's the THEME only. I also will go ahead and say this will probably only work in ClockworkMod Recovery.
http://www.thememydroid.com/themes/WatermarkDUD-eXtreme-7.0.0b.zip
If it works, I will add it to the OP. I have a gigantic headache right now, and got about 2hrs of sleep last night, but I am hoping this works... if not, i will get crackin at it this evening when I get back from work.
Hope you're feeling better. Can you tell me what is the big difference between the .a and the .b?