Do you have more then one messaging app installed? It kinda sounds like you might have a 3rd party app that is tossing up notifications, I had a similar issue when I first installed Handcent before I forgot to turn off the stock messaging notifications.
Especially since it's happening across ROMs... Could you clarify a bit more what you mean by your comment about Titanium Backup?
nope, Im one of the few that doesn't even use handcent, I like the stock txt message app
but I have used it before, and I do know what issue you are reffering to, but I dont have any other txt message apps installed.
Im not exactly sure what you mean by titanium backup..?
Thank for the help everyone, but ive gone through everything I can possible try..
unless someone has any other suggestions I guess my old resort will be to wipe and put bugless beast from scratch..
Ahh gotcha! Heh, sorry, I should actually pay more attention to the name of the person posting, I thought you were the one that mentioned the weirdness with Titanium
You could use Titanium to back up all your apps and data, reflash with a wipe, and then use Titanium to put them all back on and see if that helps.
I've got to be a pro at that in the last two weeks... I've been doing it too often, I keep wanting to flash my work computer and overclock it when it bogs down...
Also, did you do a full wipe when you installed BB?