Is it possible you're not looking at the same drive? If astro shows you're in /sd/ that means you're on the SD card, /emmc/ is the internal memory that the Incredible comes with. On my computer, at least, when I connect via USB, they show up as seperate external drives, with the emmc as the next available letter (ie G

and the sd as the one after that (ie H

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I have spent entirely too much time searching for an answer to this. I followed many of the instructions on how to set up the sd card with the media folder then the audio and pictures etc.etc.etc. I did all of that and also installed Astro file manager. Now to get to my question. When I look through the directories/folders in Astro, they do not show the same information I see when I connect my incredible to my pc. Astro actually shows the few ringtones and notifications I have on the card but I can't see them on the pc. Any ideas?
WHAT "instructions on how to set up the sd card with the medial folder then the audio and pictures, etc.?
I can't find ANY such instructions anywhere. They certainly aren't in the User Manual and in about a solid week of trying, I haven't been able to get any significant answers to any of the posts I have put up on the topic.
How do I transfer photos from phone to computer and back again?
How do I put photos into contacts?
I would LOVE to see some concrete, step by step instructions SOMEWHERE on how to do this. It's pretty darn basic. One would think that someone here would be able to help.
You're right, it is pretty basic.
1. Connect your phone to your computer with a USB cable. It will mount two drives, as I said above the first is the internal memory, the second is the SD card if you have one inserted.
Want to put something on your phone?
2. Drag it onto either drive, just like moving files into any other folder
Want to put it in a more organized folder, like Photos or Music?
2. Open the drive you want it on, then make a folder just like you would on your computer.
3. Drag the files there.
Want to move something from your phone to your computer?
2. Open a drive, open folders until you find it
3. Drag it to a folder on your computer
The only specific, complicated thing I wasn't able to do on my own by just plugging my phone in and exploring, was custom ringtones and notification sounds. Which are still pretty easy when you know the trick: just make a folder named "ringtones" or "notifications" and put your sound files there. If they don't show up in the list of ringtones or notification sounds, restart your phone.