Ok.... Did a little digging and was told directly from VZW support
"Bluetooth File Transfer is NOT supported and should not be expected to be enabled on upcoming software updates"
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So beyond this I did try to download the FTP software listed in this thread, and although things were looking up, when I try to connect to my PC that has been successfully paired I get the error "Can't connect to target device. Reason: Connection Refused"
I have tried un-pairing/pairing to make sure things got done right and same results.
Although in the process of doing this post, I can now right click transfer on the PC to the Droid successfully for no good reason. :icon_eek: