Seems like we're comparing cars: a car with suped-up, turbo-charged v4 (droid) to a car with a stock v-8 (incredible). Sure, the modified car might end up being slightly faster, but ultimately the stock V8 is going to be more reliable and refined car.
I think cars are a lot like these high-end cell phones: ultimately, its just about personal preference. What feels the best to you? Is it a blazing fast quarter-mile time, or is it the snappy handling as you make laps around a track?
I made the switch from the Motorola Droid to the Droid Incredible, and I really couldn't be happier. But that's just me.