I definitely wouldn't blame Jrummy's ROM (although, perhaps your download got corrupted somehow). I've had zero issues what so ever, other folks have had minor issues, but most seem to be resolved rather quickly.
In following the threads, once you sort out folks who didn't wipe completely or just needed to clear caches, etc. one thing I'm seeing a lot of are people taking about major issues when using ROM Manager or CW Recovery.
I tried to use the recent build and it
totally hosed my phone (fortunately I was able to fix it), and I tried flashing between recoveries a couple of times using ROM Manager, and saw some flaky behavior there as well.
As I say, I'm not trying to talk smack about the Dev-I've got a huge amount of respect for the guy and his work, but for whatever reason, there are a lot of reports about problems right now, and with something as critical as recoveries, I'm simply not willing to take ANY chances.
Check out Rescues Squad-it sounds like you've got some time to get some good responses from them, and failing all else, RSD is always an option to try.