This is exactly why i havent rooted my droid yet aside from the fact it voids the warranty. There is tons of drama that have to do with developers and too much competition which makes for a good product but a worse experience.
The 2 i was looking at were Cyanogen and Ultimate Droid and the drama between the 2 has just caused me to go the opposite direction and stay stock.
I too am stock at the moment.. Just to see what the 2.1 update stock was all about, but i will be going back to the ROOT/ADMIN.. i miss having total control over my OS.. Plus most roms out there run faster smother, just a better experience over all...