@czerdrill
I understand that the speaker phone may not directly increase network load, but neither does tethering. Tethering can be used for someone to hop online to send a couple emails while on the road, or log into their companies/schools network to get some information. It's not always about downloading torrents and xbox gaming and replacing home internet. This is why I think Verizon is going about this entirely wrong.
Hey man, I'm in no way saying that someone tethering is bringing the network to a halt. It's not. Not the people who tether 1MB, or the people who tether 50GB. The network is built to handle that. But...it is increasing the load on the network. Anytime anyone connects to the network, its load will increase, and Verizon wants to capitalize on that (and rightly so).
The network won't fail, or become spotty because one guy is torrenting and the other guy is just checking emails, but both guys are putting an extra load (albeit a small one for the email guy) and both guys are violating their TOS. It's not fair, it's not right, it's not cool, but it's not illegal or against the agreement that was signed.
The speakerphone example doesn't affect anything on Verizon's end, tethering does, even if it's a little. I've had my phone a year and I've tethered no way more then 5-10 times (and that's being generous). If they come after me, yes I'll be pissed off because I know for a fact there are people out there, people on this very forum, who've replaced their ISP with VZW 3G, and torrent all day. But, will I try to argue and say "but I only violated the TOS a little bit..."? No way. I know what I'm doing, and if they want to pursue it they have the right to. I would be a fool to try to argue against something that I signed and presumably read. My arguments would hold no weight, not to VZW and not to any court. They're not doing anything wrong, by wanting you to pay to extend their network to all your devices. Again, if I owned VZW I'd be doing the same thing.