I called again yesterday and I was told that I was NOT going to get an incredible but a D1 because they were in stock and the D1 was going to ship out. Oh hell no I told her, "you made me wait over a month promised me a DI as a replacement, that is what I expect nothing less" She said that they do not offer Di as replacements. She also said besides they are on a 3-7 day back order. I explained to her that I was offered a DI to look at her records and she did and said oh...and she placed me on hold for 5 min to talk to a supervisor.
When she came back she said "I have great news, I have your droid incredible here ready to ship out"... and sure enough today I got a BRAND NEW DI! They promised me one but they were trying to go back on their word and send out a d1.
Goes to show that once they make you an offer, you need to stand your ground or you can really get screwed by them.