After the way he acted in all this? I'm sure he has lost plenty of respect as everyone knows he could have, should have, handled it better. He even left UD in ROM Manager to keep rolling in the cash off the most popular ROM. I mean post counts prove that. Even those looking through CYAN colored glasses can see that.
Statistics are a funny thing, twisted you can prove anything with statistics, for example: everyone who uses UD dies. Well everyone dies sooner or later. Everyone who breaths air dies.
Likewise, people who use the argument that the number of posts on the UD forum are proof of UD support, or the number of people who were reading the posts prove it's popularity are only really using statistics as I have. I would wager that the majority of the people who were posting, and reading, were doing so because they had serious problems and issues with the ROM. I would also suggest that DM was so active about helping people, because they simply needed a lot of help, he was plugging the leaks so to speak. UD 10.0 has some serious issues.
UD was the new ROM at the time. I even tried it out. As all of us that are trying out different ROMs already know, people switch ROMs often. Maybe there should be a poll that asks what ROM you are using now, and how long have you used it. Seems like with each new release that particular ROM becomes the most popular for a time.
If you are happy with your UD version of Cyanogen, that's great. Stick with it and follow it's development. If you are like me you will probably try each new ROM as it comes out and end up with whatever you feel most comfortable with. Right now, for me, it's Cyanogen, tomorrow? I dunno.